Teaching Your Child to PrayIt is important for every child to learn how to pray. Even though you may not think you are qualified to be an authority, as parent or guardian, you are your child's primary teacher! Children mainly learn to pray by watching and copying their parents, siblings, relatives, others in church and elsewhere.
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1. There is no wrong way to prayThe focus isn't so much “saying our prayers” as it is “talking with Jesus.” So beyond memorizing prayers, let your child know that they can speak to Jesus as a friend. Let them know that they can tell him anything: silly things that happened that day, things they are scared of, what they hope for, people they are worried about, etc. Jesus is interested in all of them. (Just as he is interested in anything you want to tell him.)
Invite your child to pray with you, but let them know he or she can pray whenever they want to by themselves. You might suggest they pray quietly in their minds after you tuck them in bed at night, after they wake up in the morning, while they are walking to or from school alone, or riding to soccer practice, etc. |
2. Don’t ask your child to do something which you aren’t doing yourself
You don't have to make a big show of it, but even occasionally mentioning something you have prayed for is a great way to witness to them. For example, when they have finished telling you about something good that happened to them at school you might be able to say “Wonderful! I prayed last night that you would have a good school day today!”
If you know they are worried or scared about something, you can offer to pray for them or with them about it. Saying something as simple as “Jesus, help Jane to be brave at the dentist tomorrow even though she is scared about getting her tooth pulled out” can be consoling for her. |
3. Regular household prayer is a great modelTry praying before meals, in times of crisis, at bedtime, in the car, with the Bible, or after a good thing happens. Let them see that praying can be natural and informal – it doesn't have to be intimidating and they don't have to worry about doing it “the right way.”
Jesus knows the good intentions in our heart and hears us regardless of how sophisticated our words are. Weave prayer into your daily life. |
Resting in prayer is especially important for families. It is in the family that we first learn how to pray. And don’t forget when the family prays together, it remains together. This is important. There we come to know God, to grow into men and women of faith, to see ourselves as members of God’s greater family, the Church. In the family we learn how to love, to forgive, to be generous and open, not closed and selfish. We learn to move beyond our own needs, to encounter others and share our lives with them. That is why it is so important to pray as a family! That is why families are so important in God’s plan for the Church! Pope Francis, 1/16/2015
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Types of PrayerClick the buttons to learn how to use these different kinds of prayer in your home.
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Other Written Prayers
You can also find books with creative prayers for home use. Some are specifically written for use with children, and others are for general family use. The Pastoral Center also offers a variety of prayer books, such as the following:
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This video is on the long side (22 minutes), but it gives a great overview of how to teach your children to pray. It was made by Laura Broyles of St. Thomas a'Beckett Catholic Church in Canton, MI, as part of their Family Faith Formation Home Study program. We're grateful for this parish sharing it with all of us online!
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